Friends

Well, I went to visit a friend who is in the hospital on bed rest. She is an amazing person, and a person that can bring the best out of someone.  I go because its her birthday, we talk, I break down emotionally lol (if any of you know me directly you know that I am VERY emotional).  We talk and talk and she builds me back up.  She always has, I felt bad for doing that on her birthday but she never made me feel bad about it.

Some things that I re-learned when talking to her today was wonderful.  I say re-learned because I already knew this myself, but sometimes it helps to hear it from someone else.  I am so happy I went to see her because she reminded me about patience, and understanding.  That the world doesn't see things through Candice Goggles and that sometimes the best thing to say is nothing.  Keep on moving forward and try to keep a smile on your face. I know that sometimes it gets hard.  Focus on what you do have instead of what you dont.  Be happy with the choices you make, if you regret your choices and there is nothing that you can do than move forward and make the next choices even better!  I just thought I would share with yall a little bit of what I was remind of today!!

Love and Light to you!!
Candice

Moving Forward!!

Good morning everyone!  So I had a hard night last night.  I had a very bad headache last night I am thinking do to the dust in the air from all of the moving.  Then some rather saddening events happened and it caused me to question myself.  Not only my self but my position in my life.  I am not going into detail but when I tell you it was very hard for me, it was.  I decided to apply my learning's to my situation.  I didn't want to keep feeling this way so I decided to forgive and move forward.  That's what I kept having to tell myself last night while laying in bed.  That is the thoughts that came in my head this morning when I woke up.  So what I am going to have to apply in my life is starting to let go, and move forward. Yes I still have thoughts and questions that go through my head about what could I have done to prevent this and why did it happen.  But then I shake my head and go no, there is no point in looking back!  Keep moving forward!  It is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do because I tend to take something and inflate it I guess.  But my emotions really get bruised easy, and anyone who knows me well knows that I wear my emotions and heart out on my sleeve.  But keep moving forward!!  I hope that maybe if you are going through something in your life try to let it go if you can, and keep moving me forward!! 

Love and Light to y'all!!!

Candice